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12 November 2006 @ 12:23 pm
Scenes from a Wedding  
Wow, I'm exhausted. I was at my cousin's wedding yesterday and had a great time. All I can really say is ... it was nice, but very different. We didn't actually go to the wedding ceremony because they had it in Franklin Square and the reception was in Elmhurst, Queens (which is to the west). We had to pick my grandmother up, who lives in Queens as well. She spoke to my mom a few days ago and said it would be too much of a hassle to go to Queens to pick her up, then drive east to Franklin Square, and then back again west for the reception.

The reception was at 6pm at the East Manor, a large restaurant type place in the Chinese part of town (it was held upstairs in a private room). At the cocktail hour they had things like dumplings, eggrolls, sushi, and chicken. I'm not a huge fan of Chinese food (I do like it but don't like to eat it all the time), but the stuff they had there was pretty good. The stuff they had for the main meal though was pretty..... um... interesting. It was family-style dining, so they'd bring out large platters with each course and would serve the food to us or let us help ourselves. The first course consisted of pork, beef, vegetables, baby octopus, jellyfish, and duck. I'd never had duck before so I wanted to try it. Well, the duck ended up being duck tongues. I'm not a very adventurous eater so I didn't even try it. Beef and pork was pretty good though. Then they had actual duck (not the tongue *whew*) meat with spring onions in what looked like a rice wrap, which was a bit sweet. That was pretty interesting.

They also had lobster and chicken, but the chicken was a whole chicken that was sliced right through the bone, so there were pieces of bone throughout it. And of course the chicken's head was also on the platter. (*shudder*) While my dad was in the restroom everyone at our table was laughing over the fact that he ate the baby octopus and they decided to put the chicken head on his plate, along with a lobster head, just to see his reaction. Unfortunately it didn't faze him, LOL... but fortunately he didn't eat them.

The most interesting thing was that they didn't serve dessert (except the cake) at the end. After the chicken etc. they served cookies and fruit. After that they brought lo mein and rice, and then finally red bean soup.

Aside from that it was a pretty traditional reception with the bride throwing the bouquet (which I didn't catch though didn't expect to) and the groom throwing the garter, the bride dancing with her father, showing pictures of the bride and groom through the years, etc. The only thing different was that the bride had a ceremonial tea service with the close members of her family.

All in all, it was an interesting experience and I'm really happy for my cousin and his new wife. We were exhausted and when we left after 11pm it was still going on. We didn't get home til after midnight and I'm still pretty tired from it today. But still had a good time.
Current Location: home, falling asleep
Current Mood: tiredtired
tiah15tiah15 on November 16th, 2006 06:40 am (UTC)
Sounds like it was fun. Stressful but fun.
I'm very surprised you've never eaten duck before. I do that every time we eat at a Chinese restaurant and my grandfather had some when I was smaller, that we ate.
As I already was at a wedding this year from 5 a.m. to 4 a.m. the next day I can honestly say: you are right, it is exhausting ! :)
P.S.: Thanks for the nice comment about my icon before. I'll show you the picture it's made from when I have some time again, if you'd like. And I do love your icon as well. (All of them actually - how can I not! *g*)
jessm78: hairsprayjessm78 on November 18th, 2006 11:51 pm (UTC)
Yup, that's pretty much how it was. :)

I've always wanted to try duck. When we would get chinese food, it was always beef or chicken only. One of my friends had duck once when we had dinner on New Year's Eve, but she wouldn't let me try any. :p

Wow... yes, it is exhausting! It must have been fun though.

You're welcome! I'd love to see the picture your icon is made from. And thanks, I'm glad you like my icons, heehee... I made a lot more and I may add them here soon.